Life change: the right questions to ask yourself

Good reasons…
Secondly, it is appropriate to question (always), "the very desire to change one's life, in all its diversity. Why consider such a choice? And, if we are going to change, are we sure we are doing it for good reasons? Or, on the contrary, are we once again victims of the illusions of a so-called "other life", an elusive fantasy that constantly slips away from under our feet?"
The third lesson is a call for vigilance and pragmatism. "Because life doesn't change easily," he cautions. "While there are many candidates for life change, those elected are fewer," Philippe Gabilliet reminds us. "Not for lack of will or perseverance, not for lack of discernment or lucidity, but more often for lack of strategic thinking about the 'ecology' of the desired changes."
Start with a simple decision
Because, and this is the fourth place, "changing one's life is above all an inner change." That is to say, "a major existential reconfiguration, a new alignment of these planets named desires, values, dreams, hopes, goals and projects." It is therefore appropriate, in a way, to be in tune with this interior and to welcome it without pretense.
Finally, "have you become aware of the possibility, or even the necessity, of a life change"? Time for action! Knowing, however, that radical change remains rare. The first step "can also be a discreet decision, while still being powerful, because it carries future changes." And to quote: "bringing your retirement forward by a few months, signing up for a craft or artistic training course, creating your profile on one or more dating sites, joining an association," etc. A simple decision, in fact!
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